Contents

PREFACE

      Our Generation’s Identity Crisis

      How We Got into This Mess

      Why We Need to Know Ourselves

INTRODUCTION

      What You’ll Gain from This Book

      How This Book Is Organized

      Getting the Most from This Book

SECTION ONE: SYSTEM AND THEORY

CHAPTER 1

System of Personality

      Our Favorite Personality Map

CHAPTER 2

Myers-Briggs Dichotomies and Cognitive Functions

      Myers-Briggs Dichotomies Explained

      Introversion vs Extraversion: Inner World vs. Outer World Reality

      Sensing vs. iNtuition: How We Perceive Reality

      Thinking vs. Feeling: How We Evaluate Information and Make Decisions

      Judging vs. Perceiving: Do You Want Freedom or Organization?

      Dichotomies: In Conclusion

CHAPTER 3

The Cognitive Functions

      The Four Cognitive Functions You Use

      Pairing Cognitive Functions with Myers-Briggs Types

      Dominant and Auxiliary Functions

      Tertiary and Inferior Functions

CHAPTER 4

The Car Model

      Determining Cognitive Function from Type

      Driver (Dominant)

      Copilot (Auxiliary)

      10-Year-Old (Tertiary)

      3-Year-Old (Inferior)

CHAPTER 5

Cognitive Functions in Detail

      Perceiving Functions

      Judging Functions

      The Good News and Bad News

SECTION TWO: THE SIXTEEN TYPES

CHAPTER 6

ENTP Personality Type

      The ENTP Driver Is Exploration (Ne)

      The ENTP Copilot Is Accuracy (Ti)

      The ENTP 10-Year-Old Is Harmony (Fe)

      The ENTP 3-Year-Old Is Memory (Si)

CHAPTER 7

ENFP Personality Type

      The ENFP Driver Is Exploration (Ne)

      The ENFP Copilot Is Authenticity (Fi)

      The ENFP 10-Year-Old Is Effectiveness (Te)

      The ENFP 3-Year-Old Is Memory (Si)

CHAPTER 8

ESTP Personality Type

      The ESTP Driver Is Sensation (Se)

      The ESTP Copilot Is Accuracy (Ti)

      The ESTP 10-Year-Old Is Harmony (Fe)

      The ESTP 3-Year-Old Is Perspectives (Ni)

CHAPTER 9

ESFP Personality Type

      The ESFP Driver Is Sensation (Se)

      The ESFP Copilot Is Authenticity (Fi)

      The ESFP 10-Year-Old Is Effectiveness (Te)

      The ESFP 3-Year-Old Is Perspectives (Ni)

CHAPTER 10

INTJ Personality Type

      The INTJ Driver Is Perspectives (Ni)

      The INTJ Copilot Is Effectiveness (Te)

      The INTJ 10-Year-Old Is Authenticity (Fi)

      The INTJ 3-Year-Old Is Sensation (Se)

CHAPTER 11

INFJ Personality Type

      The INFJ Driver Is Perspectives (Ni)

      The INFJ Copilot Is Harmony (Fe)

      The INFJ 10-Year-Old Is Accuracy (Ti)

      The INFJ 3-Year-Old Is Sensation (Se)

CHAPTER 12

ISTJ Personality Type

      The ISTJ Driver Is Memory (Si)

      The ISTJ Copilot Is Effectiveness (Te)

      The ISTJ 10-Year-Old Is Authenticity (Fi)

      The ISTJ 3-Year-Old Is Exploration (Ne)

CHAPTER 13

ISFJ Personality Type

      The ISFJ Driver Is Memory (Si)

      The ISFJ Copilot Is Harmony (Fe)

      The ISFJ 10-Year-Old Is Accuracy (Ti)

      The ISFJ 3-Year-Old Is Exploration (Ne)

CHAPTER 14

INTP Personality Type

      The INTP Driver Is Accuracy (Ti)

      The INTP Copilot Is Exploration (Ne)

      The INTP 10-Year-Old Is Memory (Si)

      The INTP 3-Year-Old Is Harmony (Fe)

CHAPTER 15

INFP Personality Type

      The INFP Driver Is Authenticity (Fi)

      The INFP Copilot Is Exploration (Ne)

      The INFP 10-Year-Old Is Memory (Si)

      The INFP 3-Year-Old Is Effectiveness (Te)

CHAPTER 16

ISTP Personality Type

      The ISTP Driver Is Accuracy (Ti)

      The ISTP Copilot Is Sensation (Se)

      The ISTP 10-Year-Old Is Perspectives (Ni)

      The ISTP 3-Year-Old Is Harmony (Fe)

CHAPTER 17

ISFP Personality Type

      The ISFP Driver Is Authenticity (Fi)

      The ISFP Copilot Is Sensation (Se)

      The ISFP 10-Year-Old Is Perspectives (Ni)

      The ISFP 3-Year-Old Is Effectiveness (Te)

CHAPTER 18

ENTJ Personality Type

      The ENTJ Driver Is Effectiveness (Te)

      The ENTJ Copilot Is Perspectives (Ni)

      The ENTJ 10-Year-Old Is Sensation (Se)

      The ENTJ 3-Year-Old Is Authenticity (Fi)

CHAPTER 19

ENFJ Personality Type

      The ENFJ Driver Is Harmony (Fe)

      The ENFJ Copilot Is Perspectives (Ni)

      The ENFJ 10-Year-Old Is Sensation (Se)

      The ENFJ 3-Year-Old Is Accuracy (Ti)

CHAPTER 20

ESTJ Personality Type

      The ESTJ Driver Is Effectiveness (Te)

      The ESTJ Copilot Is Memory (Si)

      The ESTJ 10-Year-Old Is Exploration (Ne)

      The ESTJ 3-Year-Old Is Authenticity (Fi)

CHAPTER 21

ESFJ Personality Type

      The ESFJ Driver Is Harmony (Fe)

      The ESFJ Copilot Is Memory (Si)

      The ESFJ 10-Year-Old Is Exploration (Ne)

      The ESFJ 3-Year-Old Is Accuracy (Ti)

CHAPTER 22

The FIRM Model

      Find Your Fixation

      Personality Fixations

      What If You Don’t Identify with Your Type’s Fixation?

      What If You Identify with a FIRM Fixation of a Different Type?

CONCLUSION: THE PATH FORWARD

      Think of Yourself as a Sovereign Person

      Find Access Points to Become Who You Were Meant to Be

      Change the World by Loving and Developing Yourself

APPENDIX

      Discovering your Myers-Briggs Type

      Scoring Mechanism

      My Car Model

      Car Model Notes

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

ABOUT THE AUTHORS